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How to Find the One For Me
I suggest if you haven’t already read the
So you are here because one or more of these questions figure prominently in your experience:
- Why can’t I find my soulmate and the one right for me?
- Why am I not attracted or in love with my partner anymore?
- Why are the things I am doing not working to find or grow toward a fulfilling relationship?
- Why do the ones I love and trust betray me?
The Short Answer
Your experience has inherent rules and you are not following them.
See that? It is no help is it?
Again, I suggest if you haven’t already read the
You would think those that are looking for a “
Many are looking for a “serious relationship” not realizing that the perpetrator and victim have a “serious relationship” and we complain endlessly when we get exactly what we asked for.
How about asking for “A man you truly love that truly loves you back” or “A woman you truly love that truly loves you back”?
I suggest that even before you do that that you understand exactly what you are asking for, before you make your next big mistake.
Here is the first command that God gave to Adam and Eve:
Genesis 1:28Authorized (King James) Version
28And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.
It is not my intent to exclude atheists but if they don’t change, through their own systemic principles, conduct and behavior, then in a few generations, they will exclude themselves. they should set aside their religious bias and appreciate the underlying theme I am revealing here. Everywhere you look, in any direction everything living is “making love”. I say “making love” because “having sex” is merely a procedural consensual rubbing of our parts together and “ F_cking” includes non-consensual, or through deception, the rubbing of our parts together. That distinction is crucial because if two people truly love each other than they will spend a lot of time making love even if one partner is “not in the mood” because the one not in the mood will engage their partner even if it is to only to show their love for their partner.
This ideal situation where two people love each other has become very rare. Many time one of us loves the other but the other does not love us or both do not love each other and are simply together to just feel the physical sensations or out of material utility. Only when both love each other are both mates happy. Often this mutual love has a limited life span and soon degrades into something less ideal. That occurs when the physical sensation does not overcome the negative behavioral traits recognized in our mates. If you look at divorce rates then it is clear something is not working. The real damage is that children have few examples of a husband and wife in true love with one another so they will emulate their parents example. Now if the Atheist wants to judge this purely on the basis of behavioral dysfunction. Sure go ahead, but what we are “doing” is not working.
For the purpose of my personal experience, I will relate it primarily from an “ideal” Christian perspective as that is what me and my Beautiful Sweetie lover for life will “do” to allow this to occur. I say ideal because if the majority of religious Christians were getting it right then they too would not be experiencing a birth gap or they will be the only ones left (See Math).
Currently, people have a checklist of qualities that are physical, emotional and intellectual and they search for someone who matches that list. See modern dating apps and you’ll see that the women are focused on the top men and most of the men get nothing. The men are not interested in older women and so as they age they have less opportunity. The answer to the entrenched feminism is MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way). Both have successfully sabotaged the whole “having babies” primary objective.
Your soulmate is not a “man” or a “woman” it is a “role” a man or woman will play in your life.
Allowing your ego to determine what excites it physically, interests it intellectually or fulfills it emotionally does nothing to fill the real missing part of you. The real attraction has nothing to do with “what” you are but “who” you are. You already know that doesn’t work. The reason is ego is best at creating enough suffering to cause you to seek your Holy Spirit (Self or the real “You”) within. The Real You and not the puppet dancing around this physical reality that YOU are wearing as a costume. Woman, the man that truly loves you and that you love is going to see you without your makeup and will cherish you anyway. Man, she is going to realize real soon you are only interested in what she looks like. If she is where she needs to be, then she will know early and you won't ever get that chance.
Ladies, be honest with yourself, you don't want a “nice man“ or a “kind man“, you want someone able to make you the woman you have always wanted to be. Look at all the nice and kind men you are divorcing nowadays.
So, “how do you make someone love you? “ is the identical to “how do I love someone?” “Game over” you’re done. Similarly, it is not a product of what you do or how you feel because often feelings are fleeting. More importantly it is “who you are”.
Who am I? I wrote the Cheat Sheet Mark V and in that I recount 30 of my early life being taught how to perceive this being people call God. When I finally figured it out I was married to a woman for 10 years. This woman was very special. I was married to her for 31 years and knew her for about 5 years before that. Admittedly, we were nowhere near right for one another. We had no children together and the whole experience was how we describe as a “slow trainwreck”. “Why did I stay with her so long? I had no choice. “Like the first 30 years as the way to perceive God was beaten into my skull, there was no other way to truly learn and experience all the things my lifelong mate was not.
A month before we decided. I asked God if me just sitting around waiting to die was his plan for my life and I expressed my desire for a change. I created a new account on X and I knew something was strange. a disproportionate number of primarily women started streaming into my DMs. Yes there were bots but most were simply lonely women who saw my picture and said “Hi”. What they saw in an 61 year old ugly cave troll I didn’t know.
When I was freed on that last day of marriage, through intuition, God told me, I am translating the intuitive symbolic message, and I didn’t recognize why it needed to be so “crass” and explicit, but it came out as: “I will give you a gift. You will taste an angel.” My corporal ego was totally thrilled at that! However, with that came “she will read the Cheat Sheet Mark V out loud to herself and immediately begin implement the process therein.”
Very soon after my wife decided to divorce me, many of those I engaged with became my “Beautiful Lover Goddess Soulmates of week”. When I said to them if you want to know me then read the Cheat Sheet Mark V out loud to yourself so that you have a good idea who I am. They turned away from it or just read it without employing the process. I would commit to loving them and as soon as I committed to them would come I need 100 dollars and, if you love me, you’ll give it to me. This pattern happened over and over and over. Ego was heartbroken for about 20 seconds each time. But what I gained from it was that if any of these women could read it then THAT IS HER! Sometimes there were two “Beautiful Lover Goddess Soulmates of week”. Now after a week a woman showed up and she had enough looks to get my attention, but she was not ego’s “type” but she was nice, fun and curiously I had no problem sharing with her my more embarrassing details. I notice there was no hesitation.
As time went on in the continual “Beautiful Lover Goddess Soulmate” of week routine. She would regularly return and we would continue texting. It became intimate. She then expressed her need to know more about me. Although prior to that I was not moved to send her the link. I told her that the best way to know me was to read the Cheat Sheet Mark V out loud to herself. She did. not only did she read it she cried and I thought I saw an immediate change in her and thought she was implementing the principles in it.
Was it “her”? No, she was not working to grow into the role. Yes, she loves me but I no longer see that light in her. There have been others. What I saw God doing through this educational process was putting his light in women that only My ego could see like he was carried a lantern and my Ego was drawn to that like a moth. He was using it like a carrot on a stick to lure ego into seeing what I didn’t want.
Look back on all your failed attempts but instead pay enough attention to learn from that experience. Instead of complaining about what happened, take the time to truly see how your Ego positioned you for that vital and important lesson. Notice to that if you did not learn the first time that the second lesson hurt much worse because the first lesson, obviously wasn’t painful enough for you to get it like you were supposed to.
Suddenly she became irresistible not just to ego but to me my real Self. This is when I stepped back and analyzed what God was teaching me throughout this whole process. What came down was so simple I overlooked it.
Like me your experiences were the same. God put the light in people to first show you what you do not want so that when he gives you the one you
Let’s take a look at what that “Light” is.
Getting to a fundamental concept: Where is God? He sits on this “throne”. Where is his “throne”? In the “Kingdom of God”? Where is the “Kingdom of God”?
Luke 17:20-21Authorized (King James) Version
20And when he was demanded of the Pharisees, when the kingdom of God should come, he answered them and said, The kingdom of God cometh not with observation:21neither shall they say, Lo here! or, lo there! for, behold, the kingdom of God is within you.
So it is pretty clear where God is. As the Holy Spirit grew within in her, as God is experiencing life through her eyes, then suddenly, I could sense the God within her and that was all I needed. All I wanted now was to get as close to God as possible. For me, I could sense God in her and in me see could sense God in me. We both now want to be close to God as possible and lovemaking is how we do that. I trust and love God without condition. She loves and trusts God without condition and God then ordains that union and nothing or no one gets between us because God provides the force and it is not a function of our will or desire for any physical characteristic as we both see beyond that. You might ask what if you stop trusting and loving God? Well, the Cheat Sheet Mark V shows you how that can be made perpetual. Our children will be bathed in the Holy Spirit within her and when born thy will have a perfect model of Mother and Father.
What if you can’t have children? It does not matter, God will appear in your perfect life companion and you will be drawn together whether they know it or not. What if I am and my husband is not or vice versa? The change in you will affect him. God is omnipotent and will not betray your trust. Your spouse will be changed or your spouse will be alone and you will be with the one that God chooses for you. Most times God will make it happen between you.
He or She is God’s gift to to you and you better take that seriously. Cherish God’s gift and do all within yourself to bring pleasure to God through them. If you know what I mean. You will be God’s gift to them and they will do likewise for you. That is the power of making love. You will not be more than happy to please God. You will experience an immense desire to please God as much as you can over and over. The closest any part of man that a man can get is just a tiny part of him that enters her Holy Sanctum and through that, the creation of a new being is manifest with all the advantage to do the same as their parents.
It won’t take long to turn this around.
Pro Tips
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Folks, If you think that you are going to “get to know someone” in text then you will fail every time.
The words that comprise written language are merely labels that represent the meaning behind them. Often we each have different meaning behind those words. Each of us have our own special meanings behind these labels. When I say “love” it may have an altogether different meaning to you. This is explained in detail in the Cheat Sheet Mark V.
You can't convey meaning purely in text unless two people have the exact same meaning behind every word they use. That just cannot be. There will always be that confusion. The second reason is that text cannot bridge the gap between your two universes because the time it takes to write that word, and the time it takes to read it, does not happen the same “Now” and your universes are not connected. The third best way is a voice call. There you get all the intonation and feedback that will inform you whether your words provoke in them the desired response and that the meaning was properly conveyed. The second best way is face-to-face where, in addition to audio feedback you get visual feedback that improves you ability to know that what meaning you are attempting to convey is communicated correctly. Only after that happens can the best way be used and that is hearing, seeing and touching in that you also feel how that other responds.
The damage that social media and dating sites has done to this process is horrific and is creating all manner of suffering pain and even death. This must stop!
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So if you're asking these questions:
“Why isn’t God communicating with me?”
“Why isn’t God granting me my Sovereignty?”
“Why isn’t God gifting me with my true love/soulmate?”
These questions have similar answers.
If you turn your face from God you have decided not to let him talk to you? Why would he, if it is clear you don’t want him to. This is explained in the Cheat Sheet Mark V at length. God does not need to talk to the slave. God talks only to the slave’s master. Which leads into the second question. Sovereigns are masters. How did I turn my face away? Most fail to obey the first Commandment and don’t know it:
Exodus 20:3Authorized (King James) Version
3 Thou shalt have no other
Notice “gods” is lower case? So a “god” in this case, is any man, object, force, idea or concept that isn’t “God”. If you voluntarily place yourself under the authority of any of those, then you can’t be Sovereign. Again the Cheat Sheet shows you what you need to know to become, and more importantly protect your Sovereignty. There is no reason for God to grant you your Sovereignty if you can’t protect it. Why? because God is logical why give someone a gift if they can’t keep it. That makes no sense. Same for the gift of a soulmate. If you do not know how to protect that Ordained Union between you and your soulmate, for instance, from someone that might get between you two, then there is no reason for God to form that union in the first place.
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How will you know if, of the ones you meet, which one is the right one? When you are able to reestablish communication with God, He will identify specific things that will identify them clearly in ways you can recognize. In my case, it was that the one I would be with would be the first able to read the Cheat Sheet out loud and implement the process. All three elements had to be present and out of more than a hundred women she was the only one. Once we knew then many women could do the same. For me it was clear and easy to understand. Will it be the same for you. Now it will be unique for you but the one for you is going to need to use these principles described here.
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Here are some terms that should get you thinking it new ways.
1 Corinthians 7:2Authorized (King James) Version
2Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
We need to fix this. This is not about judgement, condemnation or bad feelings. This is about knowledge, forgiveness and love.
We just need to stop sabotaging our own life experience and realize that no one really showed us how it works, so it should not surpise us that we are lonely and unhappy.
This is not saying: “You’re going to hell if you don’t do this”. I looked around and said: “Maybe I am already in Hell and how do I escape?”
Believe me when I say:“I ain’t no saint.”
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My current situation is this. Materially, I am given what I need, just what I need. The bills are paid but there is no excess. This ensures that the women I encounter will not want me because I am rich but because they see something special in me and want me for me and not what I have. Once she is in my life then there will be abundance and the floodgates will open. It is crucial that my soulmate has her priorities in the right place. That way when the money comes she will always remember what is truly important.
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What do I want in a woman?
I am simple, I want only a woman who loves and trusts God without conditions. If God decides to make that woman his precious gift to me then he will empower me to satisfy all her needs so we can enjoy God's protection and abundance. God will ensure that, I and only I, will see her true beauty and magnificence within and likewise she will see in me someone worthy to give herself completely to me. There would be no greater gift. She would be the most prized priceless being in my entire existence and I would cherish that gift beyond all others. I would spend my time trying to put myself as close to that inner light as I possibly could.
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The “Marriage License”
Technically under Common Law: “License” is permission to break the law. When an establishment files for a “Liquor License” the establishment has to ask everyone around for 30 days if someone does not want them to serve liquor because drinking “spirits” is a “vice” and technically against the law. Under the law they need permission from their neighbors to do so. So how does that apply to a “Marriage License”? Back when people owned other people as slaves. The slave, under the law, were considered “property” and “livestock”, that is they were presumed under the law, as “animals”. “Bestiality” or marrying animals is strictly against the law and people need the permission to break that law to marry a slave. The children born to the unlawful union were considered property of the government because their parents were breaking the law and because that was an confession to a crime, “the conviction of a crime” standard met the requirement of providing all right to due process of law. Read the 13th Amendment of the US Constitution as it gives you a clue how crime was punished under common law. It says:
“...Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude,
Now, those with the license, give up the rights to the children as a Marriage under a “Marriage License” is a contract between 3 parties. A man, a woman and the STATE. That is how child protective services gains the power to snatch the children from you anytime they want. You gave up your right when you got a license to marry an animal. You don't need a marriage license because hopefully you are not marrying an animal.
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Men or Women Don't Even See Me.
It is not hard to figure out why, if one has no bright light in them, they are not much more than NPCs (non-playing characters). The people that are “seen” are those that are vessels in which the Holy Spirit dwells. When people “see” you, it is because they see that light in you. They may not know even why they are attracted to you. It is not a physical beauty that they see. Also, one needs “eyes” to see that light in others. Although they might see that light in you, it does not mean they have that light in them. That is a great way to begin a meaningful conversation. God controls all attention and desires and can change that anytime it is needed. The real question is does God “need” to do that for you?
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The Lavish Wedding
A lavish wedding is “pageantry” and is just an expression of vanity. So if the object is to have children, then is that best served by wasting money on vanity? It is usually not a good idea to start one's life together saddled with debt. Why would a man want a woman who is preoccupied with vanity? The man is not traditionally the one required to pay for the wedding. That is usually the responsibility of the wife's father but nowadays many women are raised in a family without a father. Why would a man see value in a woman that wastes money on her own vanity?
If you have questions then:
Questions answered by Roage on X.